On the surface it would seem obvious that the porn industry overwhelmingly caters to male fantasy. In doing so it portrays males in a dominant light with Females existing only for the pleasure of males. The whole industry is anti-Female if not downright misogynistic. Period. Case closed.
Right?
Well Goddess and i got into a debate about this recently. my thoughts were that male oriented porn is pretty much summed up in the opening paragraph above. Goddess however wasn't so sure it is as simple as that. We started wondering about who is really using whom here. Are women being exploited and used for the selfish pleasure of males, both the male actors and viewers, or does the superior, dominant Goddess nature of Women emerge even in this most male centric of entertainment genres? Who emerges as the dominant sex here? Does this industry succeed in projecting male dominance at the expense of Women? What future does this industry have and what societal impacts does it have on men and boys? What does it say about the Female future we seem to be heading towards?
So many questions. So Goddess decided that some research was in order. i was a bit reticent seeing how i pretty much knew, as a male, what was going to be on offer, how comically unrealistic it is and how Goddess might not appreciate the portrayal of Women is these videos. i was more than a little concerned that She would be so furious after watching that She might feel the need to exact some revenge and attitude adjustment on the first available male as a proxy for my gender. Said male being me of course.
So Goddess gave me the assignment of hitting some major porn sites on the net and downloading several dozen clips we would then watch together.
That task completed i cued up the clips on the computer so we could stream them to the large TV in the living room. i fetched a glass of wine for Goddess and at Her insistence sat next to Her on the sofa. One catch though, i had to be nude. Goddess simply started that She wanted to gauge if i was actually aroused by this stuff and wanted me close to share Her thoughts and observations with me and, if She wanted, my opinion.
And so began our evening of conventional male oriented porn viewing, for research purposes of course.
After viewing a few clips a few things became quite apparent.
They pretty much all follow the same predictable series of events;
- A minute or so of kissing (too intimate Goddess supposes)
- A minute or two of the male licking at the Woman’s clit (sometimes this is optional)
- Followed by the Female engulfing the males hard cock with Her mouth for an extended blow job session thus beginning the process of continuous phallus worship which goes on for the rest of the video until the male receives his orgasmic reward at the end. One assumes this reward is given naturally because he is a muscular well endowed male and thus deserving of sexual worship by the dirty uninhibited slutty girl.
- At some point, not wanting to waste the males orgasm before completing the rest of the required steps, the couple will disengage from the Woman’s mouth and She will either offer up Her womanhood to his hungry cock or he will grab and position Her for entry. The male will then enter Her, expressing his pleasure as he slips in with the requisite “oh fuck yeah baby it feels so good’. She might then coo or squeal and tell him to “fuck Me hard” or just “fuck me fuck me fuck me”
- Then something odd happens. The grunting, panting, delirious male, nearing climax needs to move to the next step. Typically at this point the Female is goading him on and tells him She wants him to cum on Her face and encourages the male to pull out of Her which he manages to do with this promise of further carnal delights. In half or more of the videos at this point the Women will kneel before the erect desperate male, Her face confronting the impending explosion from his cock and She will give him all manner of dirty looks and nasty talk while encouraging him to masturbate furiously to orgasm. At this point the grunting, sweating, panting, moaning male is babbling incoherently as he madly strokes himself off. It doesn’t take long. After 30 minutes or so of merciless stimulation the male explodes over Her face, lips, hair, breasts not to mention the floor below. The male is moaning and hysterical from the shock of pleasure. The Women will then help him ride out the remainder of his orgasm by sucking the last drops of cum from his shaft then swallowing and licking up the remainder. At this point the male is completely spent and the Female shows Her cum covered face and body to the camera and the boys watching at home being sure to coo and smile letting them know what a dirty Girl She is and how much She loves cock.
So far it all seems so formulaic and simple but effective from a male arousal point of view. i know my cock became hard within the first couple of minutes of the first video and stayed that way throughout. Goddess reached down and wrapped Her soft hand around my erection, pumping me gently from time to time until i was slick with pre-cum, gasping and moaning. “You simple minded males really will get turned on by anything” She laughed as She felt me up enough to gauge my reaction but not enough to cause an accident.
Anyway, to me, being distracted by the video and Goddesses hand action i didn’t see much to take away from my initial thesis. Goddess however insisted that we dissect these videos a little more carefully.
She agreed that the premise of these films is to portray an alpha-male fantasy where men's every sexual desire is met by young beautiful hyper-sexual Women whose only purpose in life is male gratification. There are clear elements of thinly veiled misogyny as well with the men sometimes grabbing the Women by their hair, making them gag on a hard cock thrust into their mouth or restraining them in position by the neck in a choke type hold. All clearly acts of violence supposedly excused in this context by the males wild animal lust for orgasm at the hands of these mercilessly teasing temptresses.
Goddess however made a point here by asking “who’s really in control here?”. Is it really the male who’s been whipped into a state of frenzied arousal from the get go. They are fondled, hand jobbed, have their cocks sucked and licked continuously, are stroking themselves every chance they get followed by pumping their dicks in and out of a hot pussy to the point of edging themselves over and over again but not being allowed to cum until the moment is right. From the first minute their cocks are rock hard and kept that way. their initial soft moaning degenerates to panting, grunting, heavy breathing, babbling and even trembling in some cases. By the time he’s thrusting in and out of Her he’s completely consumed in madness just crying out for relief.
The Women on the other hand seem pretty in control of Their faculties.
“A couple of little clit licks and some titty sucking are no way gonna get a Girl aroused anywhere close to those guys. I assume there’s lots of lube involved here because there’s no way She’s gonna be wet from that pathetic ‘foreplay’”
While it may be that some of the Women are aroused here, maybe even to orgasm, Goddess thinks it the exception. There is clearly lots of acting going on here among the Women. With the men it’s the real deal, there’s no hiding it. This dichotomy arises again from Women’s sexuality being utterly mysterious and hidden from males. The male arousal is there for all to see standing at attention. For the Female’s they could just as easily hide or fake arousal. This differential gives an advantage to the Women. While the males have no choice but be consumed by their quest to ‘get off’ the Women can maintain a clear head, stay focused on the job at hand all the while faking or exaggerating their arousal thus keeping the males lust at the boiling point without actually boiling over until She gives the ok. So who really is running the show here? It seems pretty obvious.
Ok all true but clearly the Females are expected to act in a submissive way towards the males. Often the female will get down on Her knees to deliver a prolonged session of oral cock worship. Clearly this is all about satisfying the selfish male and his ego. Having a Woman perform an arguably humiliating act for an extended period of time is all about stroking the male ego as well as his man parts, ‘i am man worship my cock’. However even here Goddess rightly pointed out that none of these Women seem the least bit humiliated by performing this act. In fact they seem to get a thrill each time the male moans or squirms as Her licking or sucking pushes all his pleasure buttons. In fact it seems like the Girls are quite in command of the cock and hence the male here. It is in fact his complete lack of control of his reactions to Her teasing touch and his inability to resist that one could argue is humiliating. Think about that guys, having someone so able to control your mind, so unintimidated by your physical size and manhood that She can literally devour you and zap your brain of rational coherent thoughts and enjoy doing it. Again where does the power really lay here?
Then we get to the part that confuses me. The classic cum shot scene. Invariably before the climactic event the male has his cock planted deep inside Her Womanhood. I don’t know about you guys but from my point of view the Vagina is the center of a man’s universe. All life long males dream of getting their hard aching cocks deep inside a Woman’s hot, wet, tight love tunnel and pumping their way to a climatic explosion. That feeling when my swollen cock head slips past the tight, sopping wet, entrance always causes me to tremble with pleasure and Goddess to moan in response. The feeling of pushing all the way in, Her thick sticky wetness enveloping my shaft, telling me my prolonged foreplay has pleased Her . There is nothing in creation like this. Yet these men are made to come ever closer to that explosion of joy within paradise when they are kicked out of the temple so to speak. Usually with the promise that they can ‘cum on my face’. The Woman will typically go back on Her knees at this point and talk dirty, tease Him with Her tongue etc while the male is expected to masturbate himself to completion. Rarely does the woman make much physical contact with the male at this point (the occasional one will give a brief hand job or lick his balls to encourage him). The desperate male will then furiously stroke himself to climax, grunting and gasping all the way until the ropy jets of cum are splashed across her face, lips, hair and breasts leaving the male panting and gasping with relief, exhaustion, satisfaction and lets face it complete and total joy at having delivered his ‘massive load’. The load that feels so massive to the male and weighs down his balls usually consists of two or three spoonfuls of male seed. It’s obvious that some of these males have been abstinent for some time trying to make sure their balls are full and the load as impressive as can be. Another indication of just how much they’ve been suffering under the mind blowing, sensual ministrations of these Women. Often here the Female will be making orgasmic like sounds that have to be an acting job. She hasn’t been stimulated in any way. Is the audience to believe that the mere taste of the males cum will bring Her to climax? Not likely.
The question that that still lingers though is why the cumshot? From the male point of view the same bliss and satisfaction could have been achieved by staying within the Woman. In fact this would achieve even more intimacy, intensity and satisfaction for the male. For the Female this would also seem to be more satisfying, not to mention less messy. In a sense this is almost a cruel joke played on the male. His payload is diverted from its natural destination only to be sprayed uselessly in the air.
I’ve seen it argued that the cumshot is required to provide proof to the viewer that male orgasm was achieved, that the mercilessly teased male wasn’t denied his just reward. i guess there is an element of truth to that. The cumshot leaves no doubt that ultimate male pleasure was achieved and all is right with the world. God forbid a male was denied his climax right?
A less savory interpretation could be that this is an act aimed at simply getting revenge on the Female. Her merciless teasing and irresistible eroticism rendered the male completely powerless and under Her magical spell. In his aroused state She owned him completely, body and spirit. By thrusting his manhood at Her and literally shooting Her in the face with his satiated lust he’s getting his revenge by humiliating the ‘dirty whore’ who did these things to him. He’s reasserting his manhood by putting out the burning fire of lust She ignited in him.
While i’m sure there is an element of this revenge / humiliation at play here again Goddess pointed out that these Women don’t seem particularly humiliated by being splashed with male lust. In fact they happily consume every drop completely. Think about that. This so-called virile alpha-male threw every ounce of his sexual being at this Women and in the end She consumed him completely leaving him a spent husk though blissful and satisfied for the moment. She even diverted his seed from within Her sex to be expelled uselessly outside of Her sacred womanhood. Talk about humiliating.
In the end his fierce ejaculation in no way diminished Her power as a Woman. In short order any of these males will be back under the whip of Female beauty, driven to madness again and again and again. The sublime suffering inflicted upon male’s by the beauty of Women knows no cure. It is relentless and lifelong. It is the very essence of who we are.
The final act can also easily be viewed as humiliating for the male as well. he has to masturbate himself to finality. Something that for most males is a deeply private act. One can also imagine the millions of male viewers acting in unison with the male pornstar, stroking their cocks to ejaculation as they watch their screens. How much male seed has been expended in worship of even one of these sensual, erotic, Women?
It is also quite apparent that this male oriented pornography permeates society today due to its easy accessibility via the net. In the last 20 years teenage boys as well as men have had access to a virtually unlimited supply of highly visual masturbatory material on a scale never before seen. Unsurprisingly, boys being boys, they have taken full advantage. There seems to be an epidemic of ‘porn addiction’ among males. It has been suggested that one of the contributors to boy’s poor academic and social performance compared with Girls is the amount of time so many boys now devote to self-pleasure. So while Girl’s are doing their homework, participating in sports and engaging in social activities boys are hiding in their bedrooms stroking their cocks to a ‘Kayden Kross cumshot compilation video’.
Is is any wonder the Girl’s are leaving them in the dust.
i’m not saying that this is a totally bad thing. In fact it’s quite ironic that the very material that is produced as a celebration of male sexuality is actually playing a role in leading to a Female dominated future. Having so many boys devoting so much time to what is really a form of Goddess worship has its benefits. It keeps the boys out of trouble and out of the Girl’s way not to mention imprinting on their minds a sense of complete awe for Women’s beauty and sexuality. There is a need however to make sure that these male’s don’t fall through the cracks and that they find some productive role in society. That role will probably be secondary to the Female role as they will be surpassed by these recent generations of Alpha-Girls. Which is fine, society is going to be well served by increasing numbers of beta-males.
One last point that Goddess wanted to make about who has the power and influence in this male oriented porn industry is to follow the money.
Here’s a little factoid i’ll post as something to think about;
“male actors make far less than Female ones
While the average ‘buck naked’ pulls in $40,000 per year or $300-$400 or so per scene (starting salaries are well below that), Female porn stars make about $100,000 to $250,000 per year, with some of the biggest names, such as Jenna Jameson, pulling in even more dough.”
So the Women pornstars direct the males, make the big money, become famous celebrities and are the objects of male fantasy the world over. The male ‘pornstars’ are relatively low paid interchangeable, replaceable, human dildos.
What then is this male oriented porn industry other than a form of Goddess worship? A perfect one, no certainly not. Filled with acts of misogyny and illusions of male dominance?Perhaps but maybe becoming less and less so. In doing research for this article i found that 40% of porn rentals are now done by Women. The industry is moving to producing more and more Female friendly material. This is a direct response to Women’s new found power, wealth and sexual freedom.
Just don’t expect Women to spend Their lives masturbating the days away. Women are after all different from males.
And that’s a good thing.
After the completion of Our/our research Goddess promptly marched me to the computer and watched carefully as i deleted all of the video files, erased the browser history and reset the net blocking software on my account to prevent access to porn sites.
“Kneel ethan”
I promptly complied as She placed Her foot in front of me, grabbed a fistful of my hair and pushed my head down. Knowing full well the meaning of Her prompt i bowed down to Her proffered foot and kissed it fervently.
“Let’s make sure all that porn hasn’t damaged your brain boy”
“yes Goddess!”
