“What is it about boys and fetishes?”The question came seemingly out of nowhere. Goddess was sitting on the sofa reviewing some business documents while i kneeled in front of Her on the floor, giving Her a worshipful foot massage.
i thought we were both focused on Our/our individual activities but Goddess had apparently glanced down at me and taken note of my stiff erection.
“I mean every time you touch my feet, kiss them or even look at them you’re instantly hard”
“Yes Goddess so true”
“...and it’s not just my feet is it? What else gets a rise out of you?”
“no Goddess, not just your feet. I adore Women’s boots, shoes, anklets, whips and riding crops, being naked in front of Women excites me to no end, then there’s...”
“OK OK, enough, I get the idea. I don’t think Anyone at the club failed to notice that one!”
She said with a sweet smile.
i turned red and a little sweaty with embarrassment.
“I’m not complaining though, all those little kinks do make you boys so easy to control and manipulate. you really are such a predictable ‘species’. ”
Her words dripped with condescension.
“Could you imagine Me getting all wet just from looking at a guys feet? I mean ick!”
“no Goddess i couldn’t imagine”
“Damn right you couldn’t!”
“Did I tell you to stop?”
i just then realized that the conversation had distracted me from the task at hand. She poked my lips with Her bare foot to get my attention then circled around my face making me chase Her in frustration with my mouth. Finally She stopped again at my lips and i engulfed Her proffered red-lacquered toes. I engulfed them with my mouth, sucking intensely and swirling my strong tongue around each one in succession and back again.
Goddess purred and my erection raged.
i just glanced up to notice Her again studying my excited manhood. Proving just how effortlessly She manipulates me and how i blindly fall into Her little traps.
“I mean I get the what and how of your kinky obsessions I’m just not sure I understand the why”
“Maybe that’s something you could research for your little web blog”
i managed to get out a stifled ‘yes Goddess’ as my tongue swirled around Her toes”
“boys are so weird! Isn’t that right boy?”
She asked rhetorically, pushing Her toes deeper into my mouth
“yes...yes Goddessss...”
So that little incident got me thinking. Goddess was absolutely correct. It’s easy enough to see a males sexual response to a variety of fetish objects, body parts or behaviors. It’s also easy to describe the most common ones. Go ahead i’ll bet You/you can come up with half a dozen just of the top of Your/your head.
The more difficult question is the why? How is that that a man can be aroused by an inanimate object such as a Woman’s shoe?
And not just aroused but also be overwhelmed with deeply submissive feelings towards Women as well. These feelings of sexual arousal and submissive desire are deeply intertwined within the fetish itself.
Another thing that was clear from my research was that sexual fetishes are an overwhelmingly male phenomenon.
However the more research i did the more frustrated i became in my quest to find a plausible explanation. Some believe that male sexual fetishes are a perversion or deviant behavior. Seeing just how common sexual fetishes are among males though this would logically lead one to conclude that males are virtually by default, perverted or deviant creatures. Now Some may reply “obviously” to that statement but the nature of something deviant suggests that it is different from ’normal’ (perhaps ‘average’ is a better word choice here).
One/one could make the case that since all humans begin life as Female and the male develops as a deviation from Female that males are naturally deviant. This argument however just has Us/us turning in circles when it come to explaining the prevalence and variety of male sexual fetishes. It basically amounts to ‘males are different from Females because they are different’. Not at all a satisfactory answer.
Another line of thought follows that since boys are exposed to many Female authority figures as they grow up, teachers and so on, they come to associate certain objects associated with these Women, such as shoes, boots, jewellery perfume etc with Female social power and authority.
i think this begins to get Us/us moving in the right direction. boys do grow up in a world typically populated by Female authority figures who feed them give them chores and homework, discipline them and so on. A boys world is populated and ruled over by these benevolent Goddesses. we may occasionally rebel against them but in the end we bend to Their will.
This inevitably makes a powerful imprint upon the male psyche and perhaps all things Feminine are a fundamental part of this imprinting.
This however seems at best like a partial explanation. What about objects that a boy typically doesn’t encounter that become powerfully fetishized by males. i don’t ever recall one of my teachers bringing Her whip to class. i also don’t seem to recall having any particular fascination with Women’s shoes for example. Of course it is possible that strong associations are unconsciously made in the male mind.
Also what about the Girls? They are exposed to the same Female authority figures yet don’t seem to develop the fetishes ( or at least at nowhere near the frequency). i also wonder if growing up in a world of Feminine authority and power imprints within Them a sense that it is Women who are the natural leaders and authority figures? That’s perhaps beyond the scope of this article but an interesting question nonetheless.
At this point i can accept the idea of these ‘imprints’ being made on boys and then lying dormant ready to spring forth in the future.
One thing that is very clear to me is that males place great importance on symbols. In particular symbols of power and authority.
From the moment of sexual awakening males are viscerally cognizant of the mysterious, all consuming, sexual power of the Feminine.
we are awed and hypnotized by the alluring curves and sublime motions of the Female form. The sweet lilt of a Feminine voice and that particular sparkle in a Woman’s eye. we are irresistibly drawn to the mysterious beauty of the feminine and at the same time shocked by our powerlessness before it. we struggle for Female approval, the slightest smile or acknowledgement. our bodies respond instinctively. Even a sharp verbal rebuke from a Woman cuts any man to his very soul yet at the same time some part of him enjoys being on the receiving end of Her exertion of Feminine power. we are humiliated and aroused.
What madness!
Coming back to the symbolism i am struck that even going back to the cave there are countless artistic and religious symbols of the Female form. males, at a loss to comprehend the power of the Female are reduced to endless attempts to render and understand that power through art and symbolism. All futile by the way but we just can’t help ourselves.
As Camille Paglia put it “fetishism, for instance, a practice which like most of the sex perversions is confined to men, is clearly a conceptualizing or symbol-making activity”.
This i believe gets to the heart of the matter. we as males see Feminine associated objects, anatomy and activities as directly symbolic of that mysterious Feminine Power that envelopes us. In doing so we sexualize the 'thing' itself both as a symbol of that power and a proxy for it. So a Woman’s shoe is not just a shoe to us but more of a sacred object representing the divine power of the Goddess at the deepest level.
boys may be weird but Mother Nature has Her ways.
In continuing this series i’ll look at some particular fetishes that i personally find powerfully compelling and discuss my thoughts about them.




