CTV feature on Butlers in the Buff

Following on from the previous post i found this really nice example
of the New Female Gaze. A service that provides buff males to work, in
the buff, at Hen parties and other Female oriented events. What struck
me about the report are a few things;

1. The business was introduced into the market by a Female entrepreneur, who saw a great business opportunity in providing this service to a Female market.
2. The positive attitude with which the customers embrace the phenomenon. Even those Who show a little trepidation at first are won over. The Women really enjoy and want this service.
3. The males positive attitude, he embraces being the object of Female attention and desire. he
   appreciates the attention and  remains deferential to the party goers.
   he understands he is there to be seen and to serve. he clearly embraces
   his role and is a great example of the 'new male'.
4. This is an interesting twist on the male stripper. These men aren't strippers per
   se but their service aprons leave little to the imagination. As one of
   the Women notes, when he bends over all is revealed.
5. It shows that the New Female Gaze is sexy, confident and playful. Women now expect men to be sex objects for Their amusement.
6. The Female news anchor at the end seems comfortable with the idea and notes
   that She did some extra research on the business and found out their
   rates (a future customer no doubt) while the two male anchors seem
   uncomfortable and almost homophobic. Neither seems comfortable at all
   with the social changes that confront them. Prudish wouldn't be too
   strong a word.

The Female Gaze Emergent

i recently came across an interesting article in a mainstream right-wing newspaper arguing that Women’s objectification of men's bodies has become mainstream and socially acceptable, sometimes to the discomfort of those ‘poor’ objectified males.

How times change and further proof of the emerging Female Future. To quote the article:

“Itʼs not easy being a hot piece of beautiful man these days.”

“Take poor Ryan Gosling, for instance. The actor will forever be haunted by viral photos of his chiseled six-pack. And then thereʼs Channing Tatum. The Magic Mike star may never recover from the degradation he experienced playing a drool-worthy stripper in not just one, but two films.”

“Actors are increasingly expected to pose topless, get ripped in the gym to secure much-coveted superhero roles and stand idly by while women ruthlessly compile Tumblr accounts documenting the bulge in their pants.”

About time i’d say. Forever under the fading patriarchy, Women have been sexually objectified and commodified, Their sexuality and desires treated as secondary, irrelevant or even non-existent.

So it shouldn’t come as any surprise that today, Women’s newfound power, education, wealth and success is unleashing the latent Female desire to sexually objectify and admire the male physique. It’s a beautiful thing to behold, a confident Woman expressing Her desires, tastes and fantasies openly.

It’s long overdue and something males need to get used to, though i suspect many men enjoy the thought of being the subject of Women’s fantasies.

On the other hand with sexual objectification comes the pressure for men to be found worthy of Female desire and the sudden realization that they have to work at being found desirable. That means long hours in the gym / exercising, caring about how they look and dress. No longer can any male assume his simple maleness endows him with the qualities desired by the Superior Sex.

An attitude adjustment also seems in order. males should show genuine appreciation at being the subject of the New Female Gaze. That and showing proper respect and deference.

The author also makes a point that i have made before. That the traditional male gaze and the New Female Gaze are in no way equivalent. In fact She argues that the sexual objectification of Women is becoming socially unacceptable even as the objectification of males becomes ever more popular and accepted. The reasoning behind this rings true;

“The reason why thereʼs no equivalent to the “male gaze” – even while women sexualize men – is that men havenʼt been subjected to the sexual harassment, pay disparity and mental anguish over coerced sexualization followed by cold rejection after a certain age that women have over the years”

 The New Female Gaze is playful, sexy, and fun. It doesn’t overtly threaten males or suggest violence towards them. It simply means that men can be judged based on their physical attributes and that Women are free to do so openly.

Is this a new double standard? Sure, but one long overdue.

“The fact that women can even be accused of objectifying men is actually a huge progressive step forward. Until recently, the female sex drive was forcibly kept in the closet. Women couldnʼt openly express desire or attraction without being shamed. They, ironically, were expected to be sexual objects without any inkling of sexuality (unless given permission by men)”

The open expression of Female Sexuality is, i believe, what actually frightens many males. For as i’ve said before, Female Sexuality is a force of nature for which the male has no answer. It renders the male dazed. It is something to which he is incapable of not responding to and being aroused by. It gives the Female enormous, natural, power over the male and is the very life force itself. Deep inside, all men know this. Real men acknowledge and submit to it while those who still cling to the patriarchy are terrified by this open display of Female Power, reacting irrationally and often violently to it. In the end however, resistance is futile, all men know this whether they openly admit it or not.

Society is changing and the New Female Gaze is yet another manifestation of this.

As the author concludes;

“Many men still feel the need to control womenʼs sexuality because it frightens them. This isnʼt a statement about the character of individual men as much as it is about centuries of fear-mongering that dates as far back as depictions of Eve and Jezebel in the Bible. Itʼs been taught over and over again that female sexuality is manipulative and dangerous. As it becomes less OK to objectify women and more normalized to sexualize men, males often feel an impending sense of doom.
The long history of the male gaze and menʼs freedom to sexualize women without repercussions makes “doing the right thing” more complicated than simply applying the same rules to everyone. Men and women have such vastly different historical experiences with objectification that equality canʼt be achieved by treating everyone equally. While men catcalling women on the street further distorts the gender imbalance, women sexualizing men actually evens the gender playing field.”

The Women's March

"Maybe this is what it takes for Women to finally wake up and take power"

- Quoting Goddess after Our/or participation in the Women's March 

Emma : The Day After Part I

Discovered by Michelle

i was suddenly awoken by the sense of someone in my presence. Bleary eyed i blinked a few times and a pair of Women’s Nike trainers came slowly into focus.

It took me a moment to register that i had at some point fallen asleep, then suddenly the images of last nights humiliation at the hand of Emma rushed through my mind.

“What the fuck is this?” a Feminine voice demanded. Lifting my head i found myself looking directly into the piercing gray eyes of Michelle,  the petite, curvy blonde who works at the club.

“Is that cum? For fucks sake! This isn't a brothel you dumb shit!”

I quickly glanced down at the white, crystalline splatters on the hardwood floor. Emma’s handiwork and my shame.

While my mind reeled I realized two things. One was that Michelle had snapped a few pics of my predicament and was typing what seemed like a text message into Her phone. The second was that i had become semi-hard. A demanding Feminine voice having its usual effect.

Checking me out from behind she demanded, “how am I supposed to get you out of those things?”

“the keys are over there Ma’am, in the far corner”. As She strutted across the room i couldn’t help but admire the sublime curvature or Michelle’s behind through Her tight yoga pants, Her golden hair shimmered in the morning light streaming through the windows as She bent over to collect the keys.

Turning back towards me She revealed a serious expression, rather pissed off i’d say. She moved quickly and after fumbling a bit i felt one of the manacles unsnap.

i was free. Painfully i pulled my arms back around in front of myself, trying to stretch out the discomfort from many hours in that position.

Michelle made it clear that was the extent of the help She was giving me. She contemptuously through the keys onto the floor between my legs.

“The rest you can do yourself”

“Thank You, Ma’am”

“Yeah what-ever” was all i got in return.

Slowly standing i hoped to make a quick escape from this latest shameful scene but before i could even make a single step towards the exit Michelle had other plans.

“Where do you think your going? You don’t actually think I’m going to clean up your disgusting mess do you...you slut?”

“slut”, the word practically dripped from Her voluptuous lips.

“There’s a utility closet in the hallway, get some cleaning supplies from there. I want to see that floor shine, I don't want to find even one of your dead little swimmers left on that floor, do I make myself clear?”

Though She radiated anger and disgust I thought I saw just a glimmer of amusement in Her sparkling eyes.

“Yes Ma’am, right away!”

With Her command properly acknowledged i quickly ran towards the door, my naked feet pattering across the cold floor as my hardness bobbed up and down.

Returning quickly with some spray cleaner and cloths i dropped to my knees , squirted some solution onto the spots of dried cum and got scrubbing, down on hands and knees as Michelle stood over me, arms crossed but to my surprise  making a video of the whole humiliating incident.

When i was finished i kneeled up seeking Her approval. Michelle took Her time, circling slowly around the newly polished floor, before declaring my work satisfactory. She circled around behind me and delivered a hard kick to my right ass cheek.

“Get out of my sight!”

With that I ran swiftly, naked as adam, through the hallway, down the stairs and into the performers changing room and directly to my storage space. It must still be early since i didn’t see anyone else around. As i collected some clothes and got dressed i was filled with dread. I should be able to catch a train back to Goddesses house but then what, how will i explain the fact that i was out all night, how on Earth can i explain Emma? Filled with dread i nervously rushed to the side exit and into the cool morning air of the alleyway.

Out of the frying pan and into the fire.

Then just as I reached the end of the alley and turned the corner there She was.

Leaning against the rear fender of Her cheery red A5 coupe was Goddess.

She spotted me probably before my mind even processed what i was seeing.

Oh fuck, how did She know?

Michelle, it must have been Michelle who turned me in. Dammit, now what?

Goddess just stared at me coldly. Her icy blue eyes locked on me, a stern expression formed on Her lips.

She looked PISSED OFF!

She crooked a red lacquered finger tip at me, beckoning me towards Her.

Rushing to Her, driven by fear and shame, without even thinking about it i dropped to my knees in front of Her right there on the sidewalk and began planting contrite kisses on Her black leather, stiletto heeled knee-high boot.

She let me linger there for an exceptionally long time. i could sense the passers by, sometimes hear giggles and muffled gasps but She didn’t care one bit. I was to going demonstrate submissiveness until She decided it was enough. After what felt like an eternity She kicked me off Her boot and i pressed my face to the sidewalk, not daring to move.

“Get up”

As I rose to face Her She just slapped the Audi’s key fob against my chest.

“Drive me to the office” She demanded almost without emotion, just a heart stopping, icy stare.

With that i scrambled to open the cars long door and guide Her into the seat, carefully shutting it and rushing behind the car to the drivers side.

I nervously fumbled getting the car in motion. The whole way to the office She remained silent. my mind raced trying to find something to say, anything to diffuse the tension but ultimately i decided that keeping my mouth shut was for the best.

‘boys should be seen and not heard’ being Her usual rule.

Today i’m not sure she even wanted to see me.

Politics and the Female Future

No doubt many of You/you were disheartened by the events of the past year. It seems patriarchy is not going down without a fight, holding tooth and nail to male privilege, no matter the ultimate cost to society and the planet as a whole.

Make no mistake however. This is the last desperate gasp of the last male dominated generation. The widespread social revolution seen throughout much of the world will continue. The advancement of Women has become like gravity, something that can be fought against but the eventual outcome is inevitable. Women have acquired ever more education, wealth and power. The trend lines are clear no matter how much of a backlash there may be from certain sectors. Of course the coming few years are fraught with danger, dark forces are on the lose. History isn't a straight line from A to B. Vigilance, activism  and determination will be required. Just know that the natural order will prevail.

Don't ever forget how some people doubted that America would ever vote for a Woman president yet Hillary Clinton got almost 3 million more votes than her male opponent. Only quirks of the political system and outside interference tilted the results away from the will of the people.

Don't despair, get engaged and get active.

Looking for a Doctor? Find a Woman.

Add this to the pile of ever accumulating evidence of Female superiority. Of course finding a Female doctor is becoming ever easier. Many medical schools now report Women making up ~ 60% of student enrollment. -EJ

New Evidence of the Superiority of Female Doctors
James Hamblin
Salaries for female physicians average some $19,879—eight percent—lower than male physicians. At academic hospitals, male physicians receive more research funding and are more than twice as likely as female physicians to rise to the rank of full professor.
These disparities have historically been attributed to the effects of disproportionate domestic responsibilities—including maternity leave and subsequent part-time schedules. As physicians Rita Redberg and Anna Parks note, this can be perceived to “undermine the quality of female physiciansʼ work and explain male physiciansʼ higher salaries.”
But no. Female physicians actually tend to provide higher-quality medical care than males, according to research released today. If male physicians were as adept as females, some 32,000 fewer Americans would die every year—among Medicare patients alone.
The research is published in the journal JAMA Internal Medicine. Researchers from Harvard University reviewed the records of 1,583,028 hospital visits among Medicare patients. Within 30 days of arriving at the hospital, rates of death and re-admission were significantly lower when the patientʼs doctor was female.
This was true for people with medical conditions of all sorts and severities. The researchers tried to account for every variable; but ultimately all that was left was the finding that women are superior to men at treating these (65-and-older) patients in the hospital. The association held true even for patients who were randomly assigned to a physician when they arrived. People treated by a female had a 4 percent lower relative risk of dying and 5 percent lower relative risk of being admitted to the hospital again in the following month.
To explain the discrepancy, the researchers point to past studies that have shown female physicians are more likely to provide preventive care and psychosocial counseling. Female doctors are also more likely to adhere to clinical guidelines. Though as Redberg and Parks note in an accompanying editorial today, adherence to clinical guidelines “does not always equate with quality or value of care.”
Instead they point to data that says female physicians “have a more patient- centered communication style, are more encouraging and reassuring, and have longer visits than male physicians.”
Still the implication is not that everyone should rush to choose a female physician, discarding males in droves. For one, this would be impractical since females make up only one-third of the American physician work force. In the journal article, the researchers conclude, rather: “Understanding exactly why these differences in care quality and practice patterns exist may provide valuable insights.” And in a press statement, researcher Ashish Jha said the next step would be “to understand why female physicians have lower mortality so that all patients can have the best possible outcomes, irrespective of the gender of their physician.”
While gender differences in practice styles have been shown in past research, todayʼs study is the first to compare such meaningful outcomes as death and re-hospitalization. These are the results that many patients and doctors—and certainly hospitals and insurance corporations—care about most. In a profession increasingly conscious of bottom lines and quality outcomes, these numbers may be what it takes to spur equal (or better) compensation and opportunity for female physicians.